Do we really want to find someone??

We are out there, many of us, looking for that special one to give us the companionship we all need and/or want. Whether by our choice or by circumstance, we are single and not necessarily loving it. We wonder.. will we find someone who will fill the void in our life?? Is there really someone out there for me?? Will I know it if I find it?? Or have I past it by because he/she was too big.. too small.. too loud... or just too plain?? Didn't we teach our children that all that doesn't matter?? Yet, here we are.. looking for someone and judging them before we get to know them. Hmmm... where are our parents to tell us that all that isn't what makes a person who they are...